Montessori 101
Karissa Leahy • February 18, 2026

Practical Life

Exercises of Practical Life are ordinary simple tasks to help a child learn how to care for oneself, the environment, and others. Adults have been conditioned to focus on the product or result. Yet, young children of the first plane live in the present and are fulfilled by the process rather than the product.


  • Benefits of Exercises of Practical Life 
  • Develops functional independence
  • Improves coordination of movement
  • Develops the will
  • And builds concentration
  • Adaptation and Orientation: It helps the child pursue a social life where they come to participate and lead

  • Areas of Practical Life
  • Preliminary Exercises
  • Care of Self
  • Care of Environment
  • Grace and Courtesy
  • Control of movement


  •    Characteristics of the Materials:
  • Child size
  • Psychologically appropriate
  • Well maintained
  • Attractive
  • Complete
  • Similar but can tell the difference by color coding
  • Culturally specific
  • Organized simple to complex
  • Full cycle of activity
  • Serves as a direct preparation for the next work




Sensorial

The training of the senses is the matter of the greatest importance in education.

  • There is no way to understand the world unless we can detect it from our senses.
  • It is the brain’s real source of food.

“If the food is rich, that is the food it has. If it is scarce, then that is the only form of nourishment it has.”

It is stronger and weaker depending on what is available in the environment.


Sensorial Exercises help neuro-connections in the brain become stronger. It helps the child become conscious of the physical property of the world such as taste, smell, texture, color.

Aim:

  • Classify and organize their sensory perceptions
  • Refine his powers of discrimination
  • Build intellect
  • Develop Abstraction
  • Assist in the powers of accurate memory
  • Develop operational understanding of the world
  • Creation of life long skills (order, exactness, and precision) 
  • Develops aesthetic sense and artistic creativity (prepares for the mathematical mind)

Sensitive period for sensorial refinement only happens from birth to 6 years. Once the child has had lot of opportunities to explore EPL & Sensorial, only then can we give them the name and language associated with it.


Language

Spoken Language:

  • Give language so children can be confident in expressing themselves.
  • The freedom to explore allows them to gain ideas which expand their intellect.
  • Adults act as role models and children absorb everything so we must use precise language.
  • Activities: cultural folders, book reading, reading poems, storytelling

Written Language:

  • By identifying the symbol and sound, the child may discover the ability to read and write (explosion into writing).
  • We teach writing before reading because reading is more complex
  • Meanwhile, preparation of the hand for mechanical writing is important.
  • The child will explode into writing leading into total reading once they are able  to recognize symbols and sounds.
  • Activities: phonetic reading, then phonograms and puzzle words, reading classification, function of words activities, reading analysis, and word study.

Total Reading:

Is when the child understands what he/she reads, and also appreciates:

  • the style of writing
  • the author’s feelings and emotions
  • and the entire message the authors is trying to convey.


Math

EPL, Sensorial, and Language activities are indirect preparation for structure and patterns of Math.

2 challenges we see in this age group:

  1. Children may not understand quantity as a concept yet. For this reason, children probably won’t understand what number means or that it represents a grouping of individual units to form a whole.
  2. Working with large numbers can be hard because children concretely only have 10 fingers to count with. The bead cabinet was developed to help the child work with large quantities in a physically and psychologically understandable manner.


Four tendencies that guide the mathematical mind:

  • Order
  • Exactness
  • Abstraction
  • calculation


Math Materials:

  • Numbers 1-10: number rods, spindle boxes, cards and counters
  • Decimal System: golden beads, stamp game, dot game, word problems
  • Counting: teen boards, ten boards, long chain and short chains, and bead cabinet
  • Memorizing the four operations
  • Passage to Abstraction
  • Fractions

We cannot teach the child the concept of abstraction but allow them the experiences and opportunities to understand and perceive it through their own natural process


Movement

All children are working to refine their movement. 

Examples: 

  • pouring water activity helps child work on coordination of movement in their hands to avoid over pouring, under pouring, and master exactness.
  • Walking on the line is difficult to do at first but through repetition, the child may even be able to balance objects on their head while walking on the line.


Normalization


“Normalization, it is the most important single result of our whole work.” -Maria Montessori

Characteristics: 

  • Love Work
  • Deep Concentration
  • Obedient
  • Independent
  • Ability to judge and reason
  • Connected to reality
  • Learns to be delicate
  • Desire to know, love, and serve
  • Love silence
  • Inner discipline
  • Spiritual strive towards perfection
  • Finds Joy


Human need and Tendencies

  • Natural urge/impulse which lead without conscious design to certain actions to satisfy the human’s physical and spiritual needs.
  • Allow the child to understand the concept of how to do things for themselves.
  • The physical needs for food, clothing, shelter, defense, and transportation must satisfactorily be met to thrive and survive.
  • The spiritual needs for love, compassion, religion, and community must be met to thrive and survive.

Exploration, Orientation, Order, Communication, To know/To Reason, Abstraction, Imagination, Mathematical Mind, Work, Repetition, Exactness, Activity, Manipulation, & Self-Perfection.


Independence

Help the child help themselves. As the child is given opportunities to exercise independence, they gain awareness of what they can do for themselves, how their decisions affect others, and what they can now for themselves, they can also do for others.


Infants explore and orient themselves to their environment.

Toddlers can begin purposeful work. A child who feels capable and self confident in the world develops independence.

Children’s House has the freedom choose, move, repeat. They become normalized, demonstrating love of work, concentration, self discipline, sociability, and a developed will.


Social Development

Education as a means for social change…

The child’s contribution to the world is through social development and social cohesion.

Social Development starts at birth in the home. In the children’s house, we provide individual presentations so that they can work on constructing themselves. Small group work is introduced later around age 5-6 because they have a need to associate themselves with others. The quality of social cohesion depends on prepared adult and prepared environment.

It is the society of little children who are guided by the magical powers of nature. We must value and treasure it, because neither the character nor the social sentiment can be given by teachers. They are the products of life.” (Montessori, The Absorbent Mind pg 234)



Freedom and Discipline

Misconception: Discipline is a form of punishment and rewards

  • Discipline is cultivated within the child and developed by the child when he/she freely and actively perfects themselves. 
  • Discipline is an act of creation not an act of restriction.

Necessary Conditions to Grant Freedom

  • Provide mental and physical work suited to attributes and capabilities.
  • Be rooted in Knowledge. 
  • All members of the community needs to be involved. 
  • Consistency in providing order. 
  • Have a control of error. 
  • Independence granted in a way that is constructive. 
  • Choice/Repetition, if the child chooses, they will strengthen their freedom/will. 
  • Basic Guidelines: care for self, others, and environment.



The Four Plans of Development

The first 3 years is to construct. The next 3 years is to refine.


Maturity period from ages 18-24 finalizes development and norming of the human species: finality


Causality is based on the concept that the more teachers and subjects taught in a traditional school setting is a result of who the child will become.






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February 18, 2026
PSYCHOLOGICAL PREPARATION: REFLECT ON ATTITUDES & EXPECTATIONS Important to treat toilet awareness as a process rather than an immediate outcome. If we are process driven, it eliminates the need to use manipulation, rewards, shame, or excessive pressure. We call it toilet “awareness” because we’re supporting a process of awareness in children which leads to natural, innate independence. Understanding the Child Are they ready? Control of movement: Can they sit? Stand? Hide when they go in their diaper? Communicate that they need a change? Take off their diaper? Participate in dressing? Crisis of Self-Affirmation (Oppositional crisis): 18 mos to 3 yrs (says “No”, separate being) What is their “normal” with elimination? Disposable? Expect resistance with creating a new normal. What are the Goals? First goal: Normalizing the toilet Talk about it Use toileting language Second goal: Internalizing a new habit Creating & supporting the internalization of new routines and associations with toileting (i.e. when I’m wet, it’s time to sit on the toilet and put on dry underwear). Consistency Language Use language that builds children’s self-confidence. Avoid shaming. Use affirmative language and refrain from negative comments about their elimination (i.e. “Peew! You’re stinky!”). Avoid saying “accident” which has negative connotations. Use factual language such as, “you are wet”, “you have a bowel movement”, “your poop goes in the toilet and then we flush it down”. Avoid praise (reality-based experiences, nurture innate motivation vs. external). Celebrate successes to yourself in private. Preparation Child sized & at child’s level A simple potty chair that’s easy to clean and/or a toilet seat w/ step stool Hamper or container for soiled clothes Stool or a chair for dressing and undressing Storage for clean/extra clothes (basket) Toilet paper/wipes Stairs/stool for the sink Clothing for Independence What do we mean by “independence”? Clothing that supports success because that builds confidence in children! Clothing that is easy to take on/off for small hands Lots of cloth underwear! Cloth gives an immediate feeling of elimination Keep pants-less if possible because it offers more success when there are fewer items of clothing to take off before sitting on the toilet Easy to pull-up pants Avoid tight leggings, drawstrings, buttons, and zippers Shoes with velcro On the go: Pidd le pad (carseat) Underwear Covers TIPS FROM MONTESSORI GUIDES  Prepare the environment with your child and name the items (encourages normalization and order). Get into a routine that does things in the same order. (Sound like a broken record? You’re doing it right!) Model or have other children model using the toilet. Check yourself! Your frustration will almost certainly be met with more resistance from your child Relax and your child will too Use intentional language. (Avoid praise & shame. Use affirmative and matter-of-fact language.) Remember that this is a process and adjust expectations. Don’t get too attached to the ultimate outcome. Wait until they are finished with a task to offer the toilet. Less likely to go if they’re interrupted. Don’t ask permission. State clear and consistent expectations (“It’s time to sit on the toilet”). Use “When” and “Then” statements Eliminate words as you repeat statements (“Sit. Toilet.”; simplified language = easier to process). Give Two Choices (supports oppositional crisis, gives toddlers control) Never force a child to use the toilet. Tantrums are not the right time to state expectations. If a tantrum has erupted, it has shifted into calming their bodies.
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Guiding Principles